It amazing how people affect your life. Even after you lose contact for so many years the second you hear their name it brings you back to the past. You picture that person the way you remember them, and you smile at the memories.
Today I heard about an old friend from over ten years ago. This friend was only in my life for less than a year, but I never forgot him. We met at youth group, and I formed a friendship with his sister, brother, and him. Then, they moved away. I hadn't heard much about him after that. My life became fuller, and there were many things that have kept me busy all of this time.
However, today I received the news that he will be taken off of life support. He was diagnosed with Luekemia fairly recently. It is my understanding that this was surprising news. Unless there is divine intervention he will be leaving behind a wife, and many people who love him.
I find myself overcome with sorrow tonight as I remember him, and process the fact that his life is coming to an end. I hurt for his loved ones he is leaving behind. I pray for their healing, and for comfort that only God can bring.
It reminds me to cherish everyone in my life. To enjoy every second, and to never stay angry at anyone. To make sure I appreciate and respect my husband, and have joy in our marriage each day. To spend every moment I can loving, teaching, watching, and playing with my children. To keep in close contact with my parents who gave me so much. To be a person my younger siblings can look up to and respect, and to always keep a strong friendship with my two grown brothers. To call my friends, and do the best I can to never lose contact. But most of all it reminds me to stay ever closer to my precious savior, because when this life is done I will be spending eternity with Him! And I want to be ready! This world isn't my home, and I thank God each day that the pain and the suffering will one day be over.
